6 Ways to Relax, De-Stress, and Unwind

6 Ways to Relax, De-Stress, and Unwind

6 Ways to Relax, De-Stress, and Unwind // Relaxing can be hard for some people. I know I'm one of them. So I put together a short list of some of the ways you can relax, destress, and unwind after a long day. Click here to read more

Have a rough day at work? How about you got a test back that didn’t go so well? Are you an introvert that needs time to themselves or even an extrovert that needs help falling asleep? I’ve put together my six favorite ways to unwind after a stressful day for you to tryout and enjoy.

Updated: 12/5/2019

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6 Ways to Relax, De-Stress, and Unwind


You’re always breathing, right? Despite sometimes you feel like a walking zombie during stressful times, you’re not an actual zombie. Deep breathing, or being actively aware of your breathing is a way to quickly calm down when hit with a lot of stress.  Personally,  taking a deep breath, holding it for a second or two,  then releasing works wonders when I’m at work and don’t have the chance to do much else.

Related: Step-by-Step Self Care Guide


Hop in the Shower

 You don’t even have to take a shower. Sometimes when I get overly stressed it comes with an increasing feeling of restlessness. It’s like my body can’t handle trying to sit still and calm down that way. I’ve discovered that hopping in the shower with the warm water is a way to reset things. You don’t even have to be as agitated as me. Taking a hot shower or bath before bed is a common suggestion to feel more relaxed and to help you sleep.

Related: How Changing My Shower Time Improved My Life

Invest in Aromatherapy

I personally love the scent of lavender. I have a large collection of lavender scented products that I use to help keep my calm and de-stress after a complicated day at work. I have candles, pillow spray, room/fabric spray, body wash, lotions… you name it, I have it. But what if you don’t like lavender? Not a problem! There are other scents that give off a relaxing aroma like vanilla, valerian, jasmine or just any scent you generally like. Bath and Body Works has an entire Sleep line that’s dedicated to just that.

Related: 12 Days of Christmas Self Care: Day 5



There’s a reason soft, slow music and sounds are played during massages and in relaxing environments. Places like YouTube, Spotify and Pandora all have playlists that cater towards relaxation and sleep. Check out this supposed World’s Most Relaxing Playlist on YouTube to see for yourself.



To piggyback on the music and sounds bullet, I recently discovered the world of ASMR. What’s that? It stands for Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response, and has been described as a pleasant tingling sensation while listening and/or watching certain sounds and movements. It’s recently become a more popular topic on YouTube, so you can look for anything that fits your fancy. While I’ve never experienced the overall tingly sensation most people describe, I have found that listening to some of the videos are generally relaxing regardless.

Related: 11 Ways to Get a Good Night’s Sleep (Even in a Rowdy Dorm)


Herbal Tea

I absolutely love advocating tea as a stress reducer. Chamomile tea is my favorite for winding down at the end of the day. It’s the most common tea I’ve heard of recommended for better sleep and relaxation. Don’t like pure chamomile? My favorite is a chamomile honey vanilla flavor from Celestial.


and Unwind



  • Take some deep breaths. Controlling your breathing is a great way to lower your heart rate and calm yourself down.
  • Hop in the shower. A nice warm shower can do wonders if you’re having a bad day. And it you happen to start crying, no one will notice!
  • Light some candles or get some kind of scent going in your area. Scents are a powerful to change your mood.
  • Listen to some soothing music. You can find thousands online
  • ASMR. Don’t knock it until you try it. You might just be one of the people who react to ASMR stimuli.
  • Herbal teas. Any warm drink will help really, but herbal teas don’t have the caffeine to hype you back up again. And they come in delicious flavors.


What are your favorite things to do to relax? Let me know in the comments!


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  1. Thanks for the kind words!

    I love baths, but I have to bleach my tub first! lol. I live in an apartment so I’m not the first to use it and that skeeves me out a bit.

    1. I know, right?! I only really listen to music in the car, so it went from being a huge part of my life in college to barely on my radar.

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